HUSBANDS THIS IS FOR YOU.....YES YOU

Do you still court your wife with an occasional gift of flower, cakes, love notes etc on her birthday, wedding anniversary,?

Do you show her unexpected attention or ''unlooked'' for tenderness?

Do you give her money to spend on herself entirely as she chooses?

Are you careful never to criticize her before others?

Do you make an effort to understand her varying feminine moods and help her through periods of fatigue,nerves and irritability?

Do you share at least half of your recreational hours with your wife?

Do you tactfully refrain from comparing your wife's cooking to your mother or Tom's wife except to her advantage?

Do you thank her for little jobs she does for you e.g sewing, washing, cooking? 

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